​​Has Your Friendship Become An Emotional Affair?  (Answer the 8 questions below to find out)


  1. Do you confide more to your friend than to your partner?
  2. Do you discuss negative feelings or intimate details about your marriage with your friend but not with your partner?
  3. Are you open with your partner about the extent of your involvement with your friend?
  4. Would you feel comfortable if your partner heard the conversation you had with your friend?
  5. Would you feel comfortable if your partner saw a video tape of your meetings with your friend?
  6. Are you aware of sexual tensions in this friendship?
  7. Do you and your friend touch differently when you are alone than in front of others?
  8. Are you in love with your friend?


Scoring Key:


Give yourself One point to "YES" answers to questions 1,2,6,7,8

Give yourself One point to "NO" answers to questions 3,4,5


Add up all your points.  If you scored a total number of:

0 score is friendship

3 or more you may not be just friends

If you scored 7 or more you are definitely in an emotional affair

 Original author, Shirley Pete Glass,  printed in USA Today June 20, 1988, in an article by Karen Peterson, “When platonic relationships get too close for comfort” page 16.  

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